Parents Challenge “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” Cell Phone Ban

by Allan Appel | May 15, 2007 8:30 AM | | Comments (8)

BOE-cellphone%20018.JPG Not a single cell phone went off during Monday night’s unusually well attended Board of Education (BOE) meeting. The issue of cell phone use — or abuse — by students in the schools was nevertheless beeping hot. Dotty Owens (accompanied by her cell phone bearing sophomore son Mark) was among a group of parents from the Sound School who came out to politely, yet forcefully, challenge the BOE’s cell phone policy.

That policy, as quoted in the student/parent handbook, unambiguously states, “Students will not be allowed to bring beepers, cell phones, nor any other electronic devices into school for any reason whatsoever. If they are brought to school, they will be confiscated and returned to parents. Students will be suspended from school if they persist in bringing them into the school building.”

Yet what does a board do — and what kind of a predicament for a parent as well ensues — when a rule comes to be practiced more in the breach than the observance, as seems to be the case, at least at the Sound School?

BOE-cellphone%20012.JPGJoanne DeVoe, president of the Sound School’s parent group, noted that Sound is as an interdistrict magnet school, with kids from 21 different communities, who often travel up to an hour to and from school. “Without cell phones it’s very difficult to coordinate transportation, changes of plans, and so forth with our kids,” she told the board. “I have 35 letters,” here she said, “from parents politely asking for you to reconsider the ‘no electronics’ policy.”

Everyone seemed to agree that cell phones have no place in the classroom; their possession, for coordination and emergency use by the students, should be reconsidered, said DeVoe. “We’ve had instances of a girl feeling she was being stalked, and she was able to hide under a table and use the cell phone to call her mom. Also, at Sound School, our kids are often out on boats, and sometimes there’s a delay in finishing an activity, and the parents, say, coming to pick the kids up should be notified. It creates a lot of problems if this can’t happen”

“So what is it that you are suggesting?” asked BOE Chair Brian Perkins.

“I’d like the BOE to consider a policy of the kind the kids have with the Internet. It’s a contract. The kids and the parents can have them for emergency use. That is, they can carry them in school, or have them in the their lockers — although at Sound School there are no lockers. But when they misuse them, they would be confiscated and that’s it.”

BOE-cellphone%20013.JPG“Look,” responded Superintendent of Schools Dr. Reginald Mayo (on left with BOE chair Dr. Brian Perkins). “I’m not unsympathetic, but we are not dealing with just the Sound School. We just cannot allow 1,600 kids at Cross to have cellphones. They’ll be going off in class, and they are a serious distraction, in fact, a real disruption of the educational effort.”

DeVoe, Owens, and other parents responded with a reality check. “Respectfully,” said Owens, “we’re putting our kids and our principal and teachers who have to enforce this rule in a difficult situation, morally and otherwise. The school says you can’t have the cell phones, but the parents by and large say, yes, there’s no other way to keep you safe and so forth, so take the cell phones. So we are teaching our kids in a sense to disobey the law. That’s why we’re here, to rectify, to change the regulations because you can’t have a parent saying one thing and a teacher another.”

“The way it is now,” said Mark Owens, “almost every kid out of the 400 at the Sound School has a cell phone.” That’s a lot of potential beeping, but it seems, according to Owens, not a problem.

“We don’t want to put our wonderful principal, Steven Pynn, in a difficult situation,” said DeVoe.

Mayo reminded the parents that state regulations give the BOE the right to regulate cell phones. “The law is clear.”

“But it’s unenforceable,” the parents reiterated. “Right now we’re in the midst of a kind of ‘don’t ask, don’t tell’ condition. That sends a mixed message to the kids.”

BOE-cellphone%20014.JPG“Listen,” countered BOE member Richard Abatiello: “What’s the mixed message! The policy says no cell phones, and parents should not be telling kids otherwise. I’ve been researching some of this,” he went on, “and, you know, pretty soon the phones will be out for the kids to be talking to their siblings and their cousins. They could also be text-messaging answers to test questions. They could be downloading pictures that are inappropriate.”

“All we’re saying,” said DeVoe, “again is that, yes, the phones must be off in the classroom and completely regulated, but if your kid has a 45-minute commute, wouldn’t you want to be in touch with him?”

BOE-cellphone%20017.JPGHyclis Williams (on the right) and Hazel Pappas, a retired BOE custodian, spoke on behalf of BOE policy. “We got along fine before cell phones,” said Williams, a proud parent of three at the Barnard School. Pappas said that if a student misses a bus, “they can easily go into the school or up to a security guard at a school and they can call home and alert a parent.”

“But how are you going to do that,” countered DeVoe, “from a boat? And at any school you can’t have 300 kids going up to the school office and using the phone. It’s impractical. It doesn’t make sense any more than the resistance to this technology in the school’s total ban.”

BOE-cellphone%20011.JPGBoard member Frances Padilla, after giving deep thanks for the school community for its support of the May 5 rally for universal health care in Hartford (“kids can’t learn if they’re not healthy), seemed to open the BOE’s door a little wider. “I’m curious,” she asked the Sound School parents, ” as to whether you had looked into other district policies.”

“We have,” DeVoe answered. “West Haven bans cellphones, but Guilford does not have a policy so strict.”

“Well a small district is one thing,” Padilla replied. “We have a huge one.”

Mayo reiterated his personal opposition to reconsidering the policy. However BOE members Perkins and Padilla were eager for DeVoe and her group to leave their materials, including suggestions for Internet-style “contract” language with the board.

How did DeVoe feel about the BOE’s reception? “We don’t want to put our principal on the spot, and we’re not thrilled, of course, with Dr. Mayo’s personal response. But we’ve started a dialogue, I think, and that’s what we wanted to accomplish.

Dotty Owens (from the picture at the top of the story) said, “I have been adamantly against cell phones for my kid, but I’m a single parent. I live in East Haven, and when Mark started going to the Sound School last year, I didn’t see any choice.”

“Nobody uses the phones to cheat or anything like that with tests,” said Mark. “And we always turn them off in class. I mean almost every kid has one. It’s not a problem.”

Cleary the BOE doesn’t quite see that way. At least not yet. Stay tuned, and turn off your cell phones.







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Posted by: cedarhillresident [TypeKey Profile Page] | May 15, 2007 8:52 AM

Ok Sound is the exeption, it is not Cross, It is a school with kids from all over. And I understand the parents need to have that contact. My son's was taken a time or 2. And then he would just go to the office and call me. He had a problem with one teacher and I wanted him to be able to call me. Now this weeks news confirmed that the teachers is not the kid of teacher that should be in that school. (he did have to drop out of her class and so did my daughter and they both had to take failing grades). That is a whole other story. But to say they can not have it on there person is a little to much the way I see it.

Well any who... It worked for the most part. He did bring it to school but never used it during school hours anymore.

Posted by: greg | May 15, 2007 10:58 AM

no no no. end of conversation. Try getting students to cooperate? are you for real? Kids tell their parents one thing, and do another? Parents need to wake up! Every student has a crisis at the same time? Students wont take advantage? Please be real. Not all kids play by the rules. Where did they learn this?

Posted by: grump | May 15, 2007 11:32 AM

Well, listen, I've been hearing about this paper and pencil technology they're inventing, and it seems to me some kid is bound to figure out a way to use this durn technology to cheat on a test one day. Not to mention they might draw insulting pictures of their teachers, or write vulgar notes. So maybe the BOE should be looking into banning pencils from New Haven high schools.

Anyway, the implication that you could maybe trust Sound School kids with cell phones, but not those unruly dangerous Cross or Hillhouse kids is offensive.

The assumption that the way to control classroom disruption and cheating is by outlawing a highly useful technology, merely because that technology could also be used in disruptive and illegal ways, is highly suspect. I hope the BOE instead will face the underlying issue of real importance: how do you change the culture of a school system so that teachers can teach without disruption, disrespect, cheating, etc. being the expectable, daily fare of the classroom?

Banning cell-phones from school property is an easy feel-good measure that amounts to a non-solution to a real problem, with severe real negative consequences for parents and kids.

Posted by: Robn | May 15, 2007 1:10 PM

If a majority of parents want their children to have access to cell phones for emergency and before/after school calling, thats reasonable and the BOE should respect that request...not hide behind the skirts of state laws which give them the prerogative to ban cell phones. If teachers and school principals don't have the disciplinary skills to prevent flippant distracting cell phone use during school hours, then they are in the wrong profession and shouldn't be employed by the City of New Haven.

I find the BOE response described in this article appalingly arrogant. They should reacquaint themselves with the fact that they work for the public, not visa-versa.

Posted by: Terryand girls | May 15, 2007 3:44 PM

I think the BOE is blind if they think that kids aren't bringing them to school. Of course they are. My daughter is a Senior at Co-op. Yes, she has her phone with her. It is off at all times during the school day. After school, however, she rarely takes a school bus directly home. She takes a foreign language class at Yale (needs her phone to contact me for pickup), she takes a class at SCSU two days a week (I insist she have a phone) and she is involved in numerous after school activities.
These young adults should be trusted to understand that the phone stays off during the day.

Posted by: Carole | May 15, 2007 5:14 PM

Seems to me ... the cell phone ban is widely ignored, and that becomes a problem only when kids abuse the situation by using phones in class. So ban their use in class, enforce it strictly, and scrap the unenforceable across-the-board ban for high school students. It's not a question of whether kids have a legal or moral right to bring phones to school, or whether the BOE has a right to ban them. It's a question of what's practical. "Grump" hits it on the head by saying we need to change the classroom culture to make disruptive and disrespectful behavior unacceptable. A kid who'll use a phone in class is also one who'll talk while the teacher's talking, pass notes, show up late, swear at the teacher, etc., etc. THAT's the root of the problem, not what kind of electronics they bring to school.

Posted by: THREEFIFTHS | May 15, 2007 6:06 PM

This Is Why We Need To Push To Hold Election For
The School Board This Way You Do Not Get Puppets!!

Posted by: MARYROSARIO | May 15, 2007 10:01 PM

THE Board of EDUCATION Policy is no cell phones.we all know kids bring them but are told not to show them or they will be taken away.end of story.no cell phones should be used in class.

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