“We Finally Have A Country”

by Melissa Bailey | March 17, 2008 12:28 PM | | Comments (8)

IMG_1232.jpgYears after her mom escaped war-torn Yugoslavia with three kids in tow, Danijela is the first member of her family to become a U.S. Citizen.

“It’s been a long journey,” said Danijela Keric (pictured at right with her mom, Slavenka Keric at left), outside a courtroom in New Haven U.S. District Court. Danijela was one of 52 people to become citizens at a naturalization hearing before Judge Peter C. Dorsey Friday.

“Long journey” was the understatement of the day for the family of refugees.

Their struggle began in 1991, when civil war broke out in the former Yugoslavia. Danijela was a teenager. Her youngest brother was only one year old. They lived in the city of Bugojno in what is now Bosnia. Their home city was once host to world-famous chess tournaments, then stampeded by a decade of civil strife.

Slavenka Keric is Catholic. Her husband is Muslim. Ethnic and religious conflicts tore at the fabric of their family, making it “impossible” to live in peace. When it came time to take up arms, Slavenka’s husband got drafted on one side. Her brother got drafted on the other.

“They were fighting against each other,” said Slavenka. “It was horrible.” So she took the three kids, two teens and a babe in arms, and fled across the border.

“I had to leave my husband,” she said, “I was alone.” They left their country behind, landing in Germany. They kept looking for a new home.

“We went everywhere, and only this country let us stay,” said Slavenka. They arrived as refugees 11 years ago. Husband and wife now reunited, the couple has settled in Guilford. They live not far from Slavenka’s brother, who sought refuge here after being freed by NATO forces from a concentration camp.

Friday, Danijela became the first in her immediate family to become a citizen. “I’m so nervous,” she whispered to her brother as she waited her turn in court to shake Judge Dorsey’s hand and receive official naturalization papers.

Her brother, mother and two coworkers sat next to her, clutching small American flags. Her mom gave the flag a little wave as the emotional moment came. (Click on the play arrow to watch).

The night before, she had broken out in tears of anticipation while out at dinner with her fiancée. When he told onlookers the reason — “she’s going to be American tomorrow” — everyone started buying her drinks.

“This is like my new birthday,” said the bright-eyed 28-year-old, still shaking with excitement as they regrouped to take photos in the hall Friday.

She gave her mom a hug: “We finally have a country,” she said. “We’ve been without a country for so long.”

Mom had already started planning for a big citizenship party Saturday. She’d pound dough into fine layers of filo to make her famous pita dish: Cheese, spinach and feta, meat and potatoes, wrapped in filo dough. She might even make a special trip to Hartford to buy special sour cabbage from a Balkan food store.

Slavenka said she’s never considered going back home since they left. “It would be too sad — everything is destroyed.” America is their home now. The kids have grown up through American schools, the youngest now 17. Danijela has settled down in Lyme with her fiancée, a Connecticut native. She’s off to a good start with a career in real estate.

“It’s a little too late for me” to start a new life here, said Slavenka, “but not for my kids.” “They have here a big opportunity to begin again.”







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Posted by: THREEFIFTHS | March 17, 2008 1:34 PM

Can one of you pro illegally immigrant supporters
please tell me how come the illegally immgrants who are comming into to this country can not do what this family has done and that is get on the list and become U.S. citizens under the system now in place?

Posted by: nfjanette [TypeKey Profile Page] | March 17, 2008 4:43 PM

They often can't because the system is slow and ponderous. It needs to be radically reformed to make it a viable choice for immigration. Of course, closing the porous borders wouldn't be a bad idea either.

Posted by: Kevin | March 17, 2008 5:11 PM

Three-fifths,

What is a kid who was brought here when he or she was a baby supposed to do, leave his or her parents, go back to a country where he or she has no roots, and then apply for U.S. citizenship?

Posted by: cedarhillresident [TypeKey Profile Page] | March 17, 2008 5:50 PM

Good afternoon my little fraction

I agree with what nfjanette posted. Yes even closing the boarders.

It took my neighbor from Jamaica 13 years to become a citizen. A good friend from Haiti she did what she needed to do to come here legal. Should that have to be something women a has to do to come here? But it was worth it to her, she got her whole family here one at a time. Not sure if the number is the same but there is a lottery every year for people from the Tibet to come here. 1000 a year. Imagine we are there powerball ticket. I have another friend from Ecuador that came here legally but his work visa ran out and it was not going to be renewed....so he blended in. I know some other kids and I say kids 18,19,20 from Central America that do jump the boarder. And when they want to go home they give there job to a family member that comes over and takes there place.
Notice not one of these people from MEXICO.

3/5 let me ask you....honestly you live in total poverty....no not America poverty 3rd world poverty, way different than ours. You try to come to America but the list is long it will be years before you can come....but your family is in a bad way..... do you risk your life to save them?? I would in a heart beat. You have to take a moment and walk in there shoes.
Note the above story no country would take her...she fled the boarders of her country. We let her in. Why, because that is what America is 3/5th

As the great lady says:

Give me your tired, your poor,
Your huddled masses yearning to breathe free,
The wretched refuse of your teeming shore.
Send these, the homeless, tempest-tossed, to me:
I lift my lamp beside the golden door.

Everytime I read that my heart crys

Posted by: THREEFIFTHS | March 17, 2008 7:08 PM

As her mom said she has wait for years,Again if she can wait for years on the list so can others!!
Second this country is starting to look like 3rd world poverty Job outsourceing subprime mess health care,I was just reading in the newspaper
that in some states school systems are having problems placing legal childern in the school system because illegal immgrants childern have flood the school system,Also some of these illegal immgrants are flooding the health care system.Last Cedarhillresident you stated what the great lady says that is true but those People came here the legal Way!!!

Posted by: JP | March 17, 2008 9:17 PM

Three-fifths: the answer to your question is easy. Ms. Keric came here as a political refugee, not an economic refugee! Totally different rules apply. It's interesting to note nonetheless, that in places like Colombia, where the US is financing what is essentially a civil war (as was the case in Nicaragua in the 1980's), we make those folks go through a much higher "burden of proof" before they are granted political asylum (and refugee status).

Posted by: THREEFIFTHS | March 18, 2008 6:03 AM

JP
You said that Ms.Keric came here as a political refugee,But she still followed the law that apply
to political asylum which also has people wait on a list.But her daughter applied to become a U.S.citizen the legal way not like what cedarhillresident friend did when his work visa ran out he blended in that J.P. is breaking the immgrantion laws of this country, I know some one who is on a list for three years to get a kidney should some new jump a head of him on the list,My point is that there is a law in place that states
how to become a U.S.Citizen and if you donot follow this law then you are breaking the law.

Posted by: on whalley | March 18, 2008 8:59 AM

They can't because it is "slow and ponderous?"

So next time a student asks me why it's taking the NHPD 6 months to okay their pistol permit I should tell them to go ahead and buy one illegally and carry it illegally because the system is "slow and ponderous" and needs to be changed?

Thanks NFJ. Nothing quite like immediate satisfaction. I suppose McDonalds is to blame for driving that in America.

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