“Just Let Us Forgive You”
by Adzua Agyapon | June 15, 2009 7:27 AM | Permalink | Comments (1)
Survivors of a baby killed in a car crash implored a hit-and-run driver to turn himself so they can have closure — and so they can forgive him.
The call went out near the intersection of Mansfield and Division Streets.
A crowd of nearly 100 people gathered there for a candlelight vigil Friday six nights after the crash, which killed 15 month-old baby Montez Turner Jr. in a hit-and-run accident last week. Three other people were in the car at the time of the accident, including the the child’s mother, Mauricia Stanley, 17. Stanley survived the crash and is in the hospital reportedly paralyzed from the waist down. Police are still looking for the driver of a dark blue 1998 to 2003 Mercedes Benz CLK-320 coupe. (Anyone with information is asked to call the police at 946-6316 or 946-6304.)
Everyone who attended the vigil Friday was given a candle to hold as they sang church hymns and recited scripture. Later, Montez’s grandmother Francine Stanley joined the crowd in prayer.
After the small ceremony she implored the hit-and-run driver who killed her grandson to turn himself in.
“Just let us forgive you,” Stanley said.
Montez’s great-aunt Teneshia Harrington (in video above) echoed Stanley’s sentiments.
“Please turn yourself in,” she said, “so when my nephew go into that ground he gonna be at peace.”
Members of the Christian Tabernacle Baptist Church in Hamden established two funds to help allay the family’s financial burden in the face of mounting medical bills and a funeral. Donations are being accepted for both the Montez Turner Jr. Memorial Fund and the Mauricia Stanley Medical Fund through Bank of America.
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Posted by: Jim Blunt | June 15, 2009 5:57 PM
Umm... In all of this blame nobody had mentioned that 15 month old baby Montez was not in a car seat.
see the following link:
http://www.newhavenindependent.org/archives/2009/06/cops_catch_4_bi.php
Would Montez have lived if he had been in a car seat. We will never know for sure, but statistics say it is very likely that Montez would be alive right now if he were in a car seat. IT IS AGAINST THE LAW FOR A 15 MONTH OLD CHILD TO BE IN A MOVING VEHICLE WITH OUT BEING SECURED IN A CAR SEAT.
I can't imagine how the mother and the family feels and I am very sorry for your loss. This is a horrible situation, but that does not mean that the mother is blameless. There is a reason for the child seat law. Please remind your friends and family about little Montez the next time you see them putting a child in a car without a child seat.
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