The kids at East Rock Community Magnet School wanted to know what it was like to live through a school shooting in Parkland, Florida, and then emerge as leaders of a national movement.
The two students visiting from Marjory Stoneman Douglas High School wanted local kids to realize that they too have survived an epidemic of urban gun violence and could become activists as well.
The two visiting Parkland seniors, Sofie Whitney, a musician, and Ryan Deitsch, an improv comedian and journalist, stopped by Wilbur Cross and East Rock on Tuesday afternoon. Later, they planned to swing by Yale University.
At East Rock, a classroom of roughly 35 eighth-graders hushed when the survivors first arrived and set up stools at the front of the room. But after someone threw out the first question — “Were you for gun control before the event?” — the back-and-forth didn’t stop until dismissal.
At first, the students focused on how the mass shooting on Feb. 14, 2018, in which 17 people were gunned down, could have happened. Had Nikolas Cruz, the 19-year-old perpetrator, been bullied? Why hadn’t any guidance counselors and school psychologists reached out to him? How did he get the guns? Why hadn’t security guards been able to stop him?
Whitney said she’d lost an ex-boyfriend, her first love. She said she prefers to know as little as possible about the killer. Deitsch said he wanted to move on and talk about what to do next.
“We personally like to talk about more of the positives that have come out of this, the things that have built up from it. We’ll answer any questions that you guys have [but] we like to talk about the other communities that have stepped out, the other voices that have risen up,” Deitsch said as he tried to redirect the conversation.
“We’re consistently told that children are the future, but we’re never told actually when. They never say when we actually take that future and when we’re in control,” he continued. “Our group, one of our main goals is to kind of seize that. We’re saying, ‘Hey, we’re all kids out here and everyone is ignoring us. Why?’ At the end of the day, we’re going to be in charge. We might as well take it now.”
Whitney said that it’s easy to get involved if there’s an issue that students care about. She told students they could convince their parents, take their message to Twitter, march down to the mayor’s office or even commit an act of civil disobedience.
“The government works for us, and that’s what I didn’t understand as much until now. Their job is to listen to us, and if they don’t do that, we don’t want them to work anymore,” she said. “We have a voice and we’re supposed to use it.”
Both the school shooting survivors said it’s particularly important for students from urban areas like New Haven to weigh in on the gun control debate. While he credited “soccer moms” for the organizing they’d done on the issue, he said that the voices of black and brown youth need to be heard so people can fully understand how gun violence affects America.
Deitsch asked the East Rock students to raise their hands if they’d been affected personally by gun violence. A boy said his older brother had been shot in the chest while biking with friends. A girl said her older brother had been shot when a storeowner thought he was stealing. A teacher recalled a former student at East Rock was shot in the leg.
“These instances happen everywhere,” Deitsch said. “Whether it’s frequent, whether you’re affected or not, this can happen anywhere. We’re making sure that communities everywhere can be safe.”
“Do you think you’re making a difference?” one student asked.
“I like to think so,” Deitsch said.
Watch the full video of the East Rock class’s discussion with the Parkland students below.
I find it amazing that these two kids can not answer simple questions when asked by the children they're visiting. Most likely because they have been told to avoid these questions and "direct" the conversation.
Also please stop referring to everyone as a survivor. If I'm on the highway and someone races by me in a car and smashes into a car 20 feet ahead do I get to claim being a survivor? NO! It's a nice title to avoid criticism, just like when they refer to themselves as children. They are the later but when you venture out into the world of being a one issue advocate be prepared to be pushed back on and be prepared to take it. You can't have it both ways.
To answer his question of "Hey, we're all kids out here and everyone is ignoring us. Why?'
I'll tell you why, because your freakin kids.
BTW I believe there should be a national ban on AR-15 type weapons, a minimum age to own any firearm of 21, a more accurate mandatory background check, a 10 round limit on magazines and if anyone is going to be armed in a school it should be a cop, not a teacher. But having a bunch of self important children stomping around with pretend pouts on their face doesn't make me come to that conclusion. I also believe that kids who bully, cyber bully or any other form of bullying after one warning should have their asses kicked out of school.