Brandon Earns His Blue Shirt

IMG_3668.JPGThe secret: Brandon Hogan’s parents sending daily emails to teacher. Brandon learning the meaning of trust. And Brandon growing sick of Saltines.

At Amistad Academy you need to be wearing a blue shirt to earn tastier snacks.

Brandon has been trying for a while to earn that shirt. That tale began here, part of a year-long look at parental involvement in local schools; the Independent is following the Hogans and two other families during the school year.

Fifth-grader Brandon, who had previously been home-schooled, thought you had to be perfect when you entered a school like Amistad. So he was uncomfortable taking the criticisms of teachers. Not wanting to disappoint his involved parents, he didn’t always tell them the full story of what happened in school. His emotions collided; he giggled when he should have been serious. He is, after all, a kid.

So there was not full communication between Brandon’s teachers and Susan and Fred Hogan, even though the parents visited the school regularly.

As a result, Brandon had fallen short of earning two consecutive weeks of 75 or more on the weekly “paychecks” that Amistad uses to acclimate its new fifth-grade students to the rigorous standards of learning and decorum. Usually two points are deducted from each week’s beginning 100 for small infractions — behavioral or academic — such as not turning in work on time or stepping out of line or being silly. Big deductions are for disrespect or “putting hands on” another child.

Several weeks ago, Susan Hogan heard from Brandon that he had deductions from his check for “smiling.” That prompted a meeting with Brandon and his teachers.

“I’m an investigator,” said Susan Hogan, “and a pastor. I love my kid, of course, but one of the forms that love takes is trying to be objective. I wanted to get all sides of the story. I sensed I wasn’t getting it all from Brandon,. As a parent of eight and as a pastoral counselor, I know that with all people, even teachers, there’s a way of typecasting a kid. So we met, and it turned out Brandon was not being disrespectful when he smiled.”

He was in a group of kids who were, and the teacher made the wrong call. “There is such a thing as guilt by association. And, as I told one of the teachers, we can’t let frustration cloud our judgment, because doesn’t that foreclose on the possibility of change? None of us is perfect.”

It turned out that a pivotal result was also that Hogan decided to have regular email contact with the teachers so such confusions could be nipped in the bud, or diminished.

There were also meetings between Brandon and the older siblings whom he admired, and, of course, the pressure of his church community. There was even a little old-fashioned punishment: He was denied going to a favorite cousin’s birthday because the blue shirt was too long in coming.

Brandon had come close before, but not close enough. Then, this past Thursday morning, with an 84 and a previous week’s 75, not only did Brandon receive the coveted shirt. His mom bought him an Amistad sweater to go with it.

IMG_3670.JPGWhen Brandon was hailed by the entire school community in its Thursday family circle meeting, something unusual happened. His teacher, Karissa McKinley, asked Brandon to step out into the middle of the circle; public recognition for such individual triumphs is one of the major elements in Amistad’s arsenal of incentives. The teacher then asked his parents to step forward to receive accolades as well. It had been a team effort — by Brandon, teachers, and parents.

In a confidential interview, Brandon said that he liked the high fives all the kids were now giving him. He also appreciated the counsel of an older kid whom Amistad had assigned to him to talk up the importance of the shirt. He said he felt a new status based on people trusting him more and he them.

He also acknowledged that with the blue shirt, as with certain highly advertised credit cards, come certain privileges: You can avail yourself of better snacks. You can go ahead in line of kids still in white shirts.

Plus, with the blue shirt, Brandon can now avail himself of Encore, the after-school enrichment program that includes drama and orchestra. In his white shirt up to now, between 3:45 and 5:00, it was rigorous and mostly silent study hall. “Now Brandon can join orchestra and play the violin,” boasted father Fred. Brandon has naturally picked up the instrument from playing with his musically talented dad.

IMG_3669.JPGFred Hogan, incidentally, was honored in a ceremony at the Davis Street School Wednesday night for his male role modeling previously at the Vincent Mauro School and at Amistad,

It’s been a long journey, this shift from home schooling to the demands of fifth grade at the Amistad Academy. When they began, director Matt Taylor had told them that at Amistad there is no such thing as an over-involved parent. He and the school have been true to their word; and in their own way, the Hogans have also redefined parent-involvement to include a bit of teacher education as well.

Next challenges for the Hogans: Brandon needs to keep his shirt on. It comes off and he slides back to white if his paycheck falls below 75 for two weeks in a row. Also, he’s close to achieving Honor Roll. At last week’s parent conferences, the Hogans saw he was at 78, receiving all A’s and B’s and a C in math. Honor roll requires an 80 for two weeks.

In the meantime, Brandon looks handsome and happy in his blue shirt and sweater.

For previous installments in the Independent’s series on parental involvement in local schools, click on:

Mr. Via Procures The Evidence

Son Gets Pills; Suspension Policy Targeted

Campaign for Recess Mounts


Dad Never Misses A Game


Dad Goes To The Top, Gets Results


Parents, M&Ms Join In Math Lesson

Xena Tunes Up. Mom, Too.


Brandon Aims For The Blue Shirt

Mr. Via Confers, Brings Ice

Night-Shift Waitress Hangs Up Apron

Xena Aces Bingo


Mom Gets A Politics Pep Talk


Dad Meets The Teachers. All Of ‘Em

Ms. Lopez Moves Brandon’s Seat

Night-Shift Waitress Gets Xena To Class On Time

Dad Marked Present

Fifth-Graders Get “Amistadized”

Board of Ed To Parents: Get Involved!

Sumrall Looks To Parents

Task Force Hones Plan for Kids

The New St. Martin DePorres Comes Home

Parents Graduate

Parents Hit the Books

“Parent Power” Hits The Park

Good-Bye Recess. Hello Take 10.

Sumrall Looks To Parents

Task Force Hones Plan For Kids

Parents Graduate

Parents, Teachers, Docs Seek An Earlier Start

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