A Proud Night ​“Out”

(Note: Andy Ross is the head of the Wooster Square management team, which hosted the event covered in this story.)

August 7th was one of the proudest moments I have experienced as a resident of New Haven and, more specifically, my own Wooster Square neighborhood.

Nothing dramatic happened. There were no big heroes declared, trophies won, prized handed out, monuments argued over or medals awarded.

But it was extraordinary nonetheless to observe the number of people (about 60) gathering together to share a potluck picnic in a genuinely inspiring and neighborly community spirit. Even the DeLauro Family Table Monument has become a favorite picnic place for residents to sit, relax and enjoy the beautiful surroundings of Wooster Square Park.

Everyone who participated shared a favorite dish and stimulating conversation. Whatever else was happening in the world seemed less important than sitting down with friends and neighbors over fried chicken, potato salad, and apple pie. We discussed everything from summer travel experiences and future family plans to gardening, dog grooming tips, and of course tis the season for national politics.

Getting to know new neighbors and catching up with those who have been friends and acquaintances for years is a tradition dating back to the beginning of history. But it is also something that happens much too infrequently in this age of increasing distances between people who lead ultra-busy lives. We are far more likely to communicate with each other through digital technology than by getting together face-to-face.

Although it is rare that we step outside to share a meal together with neighbors, that simple ritual is one of the most rewarding ways to spend time and it’s one of the most effective community-strengthening activities.

The official purpose of the Aug. 7 event was to take part in the celebration known as National Night Out. But I’m sure that some of the folks in the crowd were not even aware of that.

For me it was about a local patrol officer Ralph Consiglio proudly pitching a whiffle ball to his young son, Alderpersons Michael Smart and Douglas Hausladen mingling with their constituents, and a local pastor, the Reverend Alex Dyer from St. Paul St. James and Police Chief Dean Esserman showing up to enjoy a plate of home-cooked food prepared by a neighbor they finally got to meet in person.

It was about the essence of National Night Out – a coming together of residents in an old-fashioned camaraderie that will never go out of style, but too often falls by the wayside.

As far as I’m concerned New Haven is the best town in the entire United States, because we keep alive these personal, small-town customs that bind communities together and help ensure that strangers become friends. The small gestures and interactions add up to one great lifestyle. I hope you’ll come visit us, experience it for yourself, and consider staying and becoming part of what we are so proud to call home.